“If something bad happened - it happened, you cannot just pretend it didn’t and go on with life. If you do that then it will come up in even more unhealthy ways. Some people just have tough breaks and we have to have compassion for that”. I just recieved and email on this. My response: Your life is just a story that you tell. Keep telling the same old stories you have always told and you will continue to live with the same problems, cocerns, doubts, sense of lack and fear of being hurt. Stop telling the stories that will reproduce the life you DON”T want and start telling the stories that will reproduce the live you desire.